It's been a subject I hold dearly to my heart! I know the biblical reason for sex (to bring people into the world), but why did the creator introduce so much pleasure in a sexual experience? Is it possible to have a world without sex?
The answer is yes, the probability is NO!
Let's discuss; sex is a way to connect! Some people feel as one, some people it's just sex! Some people sex is not important it's the emotional connection! Some people are self centered and just want to fulfill their individual needs and some just need the company and sex is becomes part of the moment and some are personal satisfaction and once satisfied it's either n ext or get out!
Some people are just happy with someone and months if not years can go without having sex! This is a highly level of relationship (love) most people don't understand! his raises the question, does sex have anything to do with love? Since there are various levels of love I would say, NO!
One loves a brother sister and mother they love friends and some even acquaintances yet do not have sex with them! So why do couple put so much emphasis on sex when they fall in love! Why does society make it seem if you're not having sex everyday you're relationship is not working! And more importantly if you and you're partner like having sex with others, why does it seem that one feels not loved?
I believe we are taught that sex is a must if you're in love! You may see it with you're parents! You may be told by others as you grow, you may have heard of the many fabrications of love and sex! What is the truth and reality though? This is based on every individuals beliefs and needs!
I will not discuss my feeling since they are well defined in my relationship, but I have always believed sex is a must for love! However since sex is 2% of you're relationship I would value the 98% more and work on the sex issue if one existed This is where society goes wrong!
More emphasis is put on the 2% than the 98% causing divorces in America at 52%! Most relationships if not all start falling apart because of sex challenges! So next time ask yourself and discuss it with you're partner whats important and is 2% worth losing you're relationship, or is 98% worth saving!
We are by definition sexual creatures, so to a happy sex life!
DR Q
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