Wednesday, November 9, 2011

Abilio's View: A Time To Recover!

Abilio's View: A Time To Recover!: It's hard to separate yourself from those around you even if they are virtual friends you may have never met. But as the holidays approach a...

A Time To Recover!

It's hard to separate yourself from those around you even if they are virtual friends you may have never met. But as the holidays approach and it becomes a very emotional time for me, I need to start the thought process of distance!

As most of you know I had surgery recently and the healing process is a 4-8 week process taking me to mid December so if you call or email you may get " I am recovering from surgery and will be back Jan 5 2012", Happy Holidays"!

I will still follow CNN and blog as I see fit, but I need to stay away from stress and people that add the stress!

So, as I recover, I wish you all a Happy of Holiday's and will talk (may txt) sometime early 2012! Of course most of you know Rob so he can update you on my status!

Dr. Q

"Nonsense stops with me"!

Sunday, November 6, 2011

A world collapse!

This was predicted way hack to the 80's! A shame on people and governments for allowing it to happen! I predict a complete collapse of the world's financial system! Heard it here first!
Greek PM to resign after government formed http://www.cnn.com/2011/11/06/world/europe/greece-main/index.html

Abilio's View: A World of NEEDS and FORGETFULNESS

Abilio's View: A World of NEEDS and FORGETFULNESS: I recently was in the hospital and when you're in the hospital 5 days you get lots of time to think about questions one would never even con...

A World of NEEDS and FORGETFULNESS

I recently was in the hospital and when you're in the hospital 5 days you get lots of time to think about questions one would never even consider. When I was working I would of had the laptop and worked from the hospital, but that'a another time.

I though seriously why do we needed reminders to think of our mothers, fathers, secretary's boss and even the CREATOR? Reminders to be thankful and reminders to say I LOVE YOU on valentine's day to someone special!

Well (I can actually take you to my childhood to explain what has happened to society! When I was a child (I was a sick child) I was hospitalized a few times and I remember it was a drop off pick up situation. You would be lucky if during you're stay a family member came to visit due to lack of transportation. This still traumatizes me today. And on my recent hospital stay though now as a man, I realize the same continues today!

We have become a nation or even a world of NEEDS and FORGETFULNESS!

Being a middle child I can understand the needs part! I was always and still do look for attention! It's like molded within me. I realize this challenge and try to deal with it. But it still bothers me that one can have 800-3000 friends or followers but not one calls you in time of need and with all the technology available that makes this easier.

Not that I am not deeply appreciated for the immediate family that calls or drops by but so much effort is put into relationships you wonder where is everyone else? And that is where the NEEDS/FORGETFULNESS comes in!

NEEDS: We have become used to feeling needed on special days created to be reminded we are parents, we are loved, we may be good bosses, we have a creator and we should be thankful for what it  is we have. If it were not for those days we probably would not remember even these basics!

FORGETFULNESS: We are too busy running around trying to get somewhere we never reach to remember what we should! To love those we should! To appreciate the beauty in the world we should! No matter how many books are written we selfish self centered human beings think of one think, OURSELVES. And society has forced days upon us to feel guilty and for a day remember someone else!

There was a time I would call all my friends on my cell faithfully every weekend. It was a 10-1 and eventually I stopped. Maybe I was wrong but friendship is a two way street! When all is said and done the world moves on and it's those close to you, you're mother who gave you birth, maybe you're father if he was involved in you're life, a brother and/or sister you are close with and if you're lucky a friend or two (related or not).

A wise man said" if you can count you're friends in one hand you're a lucky person"! I can, and therefore I am lucky!

Dr. Q

"Nonsense stops with me"!