People have always misunderstood the two. It's like the difference between gay and homosexual! My mother does not understand it and it seems society and our community is struggling with it!
One can be gay live a very happy heterosexual life and never mingle never mind live a homosexual lifestyle! One can be gay and never have sex with a man is what I am saying. Though some find this hard to believe, it's been so since the beginning of time.
It only I had a dollar for every gay man that has lived and never was a homosexual (sex with a man). I myself knew I was gay and never had a relationship with another man until I was 40.
There is a huge difference and just because one is gay does not him a homosexual and the same goes for lesbians.
So next time you call someone gay, though married, single, a priest minister, father, mother etc... He or she may just be that. However make sure you know for certain before you call someone a homosexual! Why, unless you catch them at it you never know and something you cannot ever be certain of!
Dr Q
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