Love What You Do, Do What You Love!

It does not matter if it's a relationship, a home a friendship or a job, one should "love what they do and do what they love"!

This is especially true about you're job! When you have a job for the sake of having a job it effects your mental ability to cope with everyday life. There is nothing worse in life than to get up and go do something you don't enjoy doing. In this economy people are taking any job they can get! For years to come companies will deal with lot's of work related challenges; drug abuse such a over the counter drugs, absenteeism, alcohol abuse and in some place suicide or a shooting of some kind from a dis-grunt employee or a depressed one!

If you live in a neighborhood you don;t like depression kicks in. Millions of Americans have gone from rich to poverty! They have gone from gated communities and shopped at Bloomingdale to trailer parks or homeless and Walmart to Goodwill stores. In years to come this will call all kinds of issues such as mentioned above. This will also effect their children more than having a job one hates!

You're friends! People who have gone from upper class to lower class have in some cases lost their friends. Not that they were friends to begin with, but it's a mental let down! Some will hide from the community and become hermits in their own homes, shop away from they communities so as not to be noticed. Constantly depressed!

Your mate, partner or Bf etc! If you live with someone you sleep ass to ass, you may want to rethink the relationship! Remember if you don't love going to sleep with this person and love waking up with them it WILL NOT LAST! You have to live with someone you ARE IN LOVE WITH, and he/she is in love with you! The same principles apply. Love what you do, do what you love!

We live in challenging times and yes we may have to take any job to make eds meet! This will have dire consequences in the future. They may be just as bad or worse than not having a job! Living with someone because you're lonely is always a recipe for disaster! Living where you despise will cause you mental anguish.

Companies spend millions per year resolving people's issues at work! What companies don't realize are these issues start way before they get to work! I have hired hundred's of people in my lifetime and within the first 5 minutes of meeting them I could tell how stable they are, how happy they are as individuals, how much they will love the job at hand! I never let HR hire people for me! Some people working in HR are not doing what they love and love what they are doing! I loved being a manager! I loved the first 5 minutes of analyzing a person!

My thoughts come from a great book, The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People! Who you are is based on you're surroundings, YOU. home, friends, family and work! Get these in you're control and find satisfaction and everything falls into place!

Dr. Q